Ok last weekend was another great bootcamp in Montreal... We had some great guys and they learned alot...
Rather then repost the details of the bootcamp I'll post something I learned that was way more interesting... Tenmagnet and I were talking with the students about how to handle girl's friends... The discussion was around should you hang out with a girl's friends... In the past I had been totally cool with this, and these situations are really easy for me as I can quickly be the most outgoing person in the group, and be Alpha... However, I also realized from this discussion that doing this makes me "qualify" to her... The tighter game would be to show up, work the crowd and then leave. This makes you way more high value as scarcity principle applies...
Interestingly enough I had dinner last night with a good friend of mine named Ken. He's been dating a super hot model but has been spending all his time with her friends, also super hot... Through the conversation I realized that the fucked up thing is that he was generating his value through her friends... THIS IS THE WORST FRAME POSSIBLE.... Why??? Becuase it puts her in control and makes you less Alpha... I explained this concept to him, I think his relationship will now get better and he'll be able reassert control... He'll resume hanging out with his friends and not be dependent on her for value.
The great thing about the game is that there is always more to learn....
Old Montreal at NIght
....HOME....
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment