Ok, OK, Ok...I have been way late on posting my thoughts on the superconference...
First off, if you were not there you missed something epic... It was wild...Better luck next time, and GO.
Also, having ALL the guys in one place was awesome for students...And yes, we had some fun as well...Shocker...
Some of my top highlights:
-Bottle Service both nights at the Palms
-One of the hottest former American Idol contestants was at the club, and her sister was gaming the shit out of me... By the way I'm huge on the this psychology discussion right now that I inject during my sets...and stacks
The Stack I'm currently using (read: abusing)..."28,000 Days", Drill Down to "Health, Wealth, Relationships," Drill down to: "Relationships = Passion, Intimacy, Committment... "
If you're not familiar with these routines buy the f*cking book already...Great stuff...
Other items to note:
-Fader was so completely wasted one night I had to carry him home from a club...He has no recollection which is even better..
I don't know how familiar you all are with Vegas but they'll pretty much serve anyone... Anyhow once I brought Fader home, he decides that "WE MUST HAVE ONE MORE"... That was the first time I had seen a Vegas bartender refuse us service for excessive alcohol.
-Cajun in a venue...It just needs to be seen...The Jaggering that is...
I'm teaching a bootcamp in DC with the Don at the end of April...Hope to see you all there... We're going to tear it up!
Old Montreal at NIght
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Saturday, January 26, 2008
Winging with Women....or HOW TO GET GOOD QUICKLY
Hi all,
Last night we were at this club called Rouge...We tend to go there pretty often, anyhow I opened up this 2 set of insanely tall hot blond chicks. The only difference with this set though was that I opened it with this girl i've been dating. I pitched it to her like it was going to fun for us, and see what happens. She was into it so....game on!!!!
Anyhow if you have never tried this you need to get out there and do it. I would even go as far as saying that its almost hard to fuck up sets when you have a girl with you. Its just wild... For guys starting out i would highly recommend this. Your margin for error can be super high and you're unlikely to get blown out for something stupid. Basically what I'm saying is that you can use this to build up your calibration and get really GET GOOD QUICKLY.
Tenmagnet and The Don talk alot about this at Bootcamps, and this post is really just the tip of the iceberg. Obviously being out there with women, and using women to help you pick up other women just affirms your social proof in a bar/club setting. The message you're sending is that you're so cool, and you have so many women around you already, that you can just be out having fun and more women just come to you.
Anyhow I'm hungover, so all for now...
Later!
Salem
Last night we were at this club called Rouge...We tend to go there pretty often, anyhow I opened up this 2 set of insanely tall hot blond chicks. The only difference with this set though was that I opened it with this girl i've been dating. I pitched it to her like it was going to fun for us, and see what happens. She was into it so....game on!!!!
Anyhow if you have never tried this you need to get out there and do it. I would even go as far as saying that its almost hard to fuck up sets when you have a girl with you. Its just wild... For guys starting out i would highly recommend this. Your margin for error can be super high and you're unlikely to get blown out for something stupid. Basically what I'm saying is that you can use this to build up your calibration and get really GET GOOD QUICKLY.
Tenmagnet and The Don talk alot about this at Bootcamps, and this post is really just the tip of the iceberg. Obviously being out there with women, and using women to help you pick up other women just affirms your social proof in a bar/club setting. The message you're sending is that you're so cool, and you have so many women around you already, that you can just be out having fun and more women just come to you.
Anyhow I'm hungover, so all for now...
Later!
Salem
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Back from Vegas
Hi all,
Ok I just got back from Vegas (well at least New Years there)...All I can say is that I am once again amazed by the power of that city. And more importantly for this audience how FUCKING EASY it is to pick up there. The girls are so friendly, and shut their minds off (and recollections of their boyfriends)....
The game is played there in such a way that just being friendly and having a solid comprehension of social dynamics will get you laid.
Some highlights:
-I got kicked out of a bar called "The Last Resort" this place makes hooters look classy... I had befriended some soccer hooligans and a former playboy centerfold and we got bounced. The best part about it was that the girl i was with was so trashed that upon getting thrown out she had no idea why...awesome...
- I literally don't remember checking in at the airport to leave, in fact I woke up mid-flight and could not recollect if i had taken my bags from the hotel or not...
-Open tap policy EVERYWHERE was abused
-New Years in Vegas...nuff said..
On that note we're doing a superconference there which I am REALLY excited about it... Its going to rock..
Later!
Ok I just got back from Vegas (well at least New Years there)...All I can say is that I am once again amazed by the power of that city. And more importantly for this audience how FUCKING EASY it is to pick up there. The girls are so friendly, and shut their minds off (and recollections of their boyfriends)....
The game is played there in such a way that just being friendly and having a solid comprehension of social dynamics will get you laid.
Some highlights:
-I got kicked out of a bar called "The Last Resort" this place makes hooters look classy... I had befriended some soccer hooligans and a former playboy centerfold and we got bounced. The best part about it was that the girl i was with was so trashed that upon getting thrown out she had no idea why...awesome...
- I literally don't remember checking in at the airport to leave, in fact I woke up mid-flight and could not recollect if i had taken my bags from the hotel or not...
-Open tap policy EVERYWHERE was abused
-New Years in Vegas...nuff said..
On that note we're doing a superconference there which I am REALLY excited about it... Its going to rock..
Later!
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
DC Bootcam
Hi all,
Ok the DC Bootcamp was awesome. The sets flew open, and we had a blast. The students were cool as well. I was really happy with the progress. Every time I do one of those it gives me a great feeling. I feel like we're really helping people...
One more thing, whoever says DC does not have not hot women is cracked out. you just don't know where to look. There are a bunch there and they are begging to talk to interesting guys. The problem there is the majority of guys are from the Chode squad.
This was also the first time I met The Don. We drank way too much, but it was AWESOME. That guy can party.
Last thing. I am currently pissed at my girlfriend. She wanted to do work some LA TradeShow thing and I was not having it. That being said I do feel a bit hypocritical since I spend one weekend a month teaching guys how to pickup...Weird...We'll see how it goes...
Later!
Ok the DC Bootcamp was awesome. The sets flew open, and we had a blast. The students were cool as well. I was really happy with the progress. Every time I do one of those it gives me a great feeling. I feel like we're really helping people...
One more thing, whoever says DC does not have not hot women is cracked out. you just don't know where to look. There are a bunch there and they are begging to talk to interesting guys. The problem there is the majority of guys are from the Chode squad.
This was also the first time I met The Don. We drank way too much, but it was AWESOME. That guy can party.
Last thing. I am currently pissed at my girlfriend. She wanted to do work some LA TradeShow thing and I was not having it. That being said I do feel a bit hypocritical since I spend one weekend a month teaching guys how to pickup...Weird...We'll see how it goes...
Later!
Monday, July 2, 2007
Victim of your own creation...
So this is interesting...I've found since I have gotten into this that I tend to be asked for advice and even give it out at random times... Whether it was last week with Ken, or Friday night with JK it seems like this is something which keeps happening...Not that I mind so much, its cool to be able to help people with their dating life....
I was in Tremblant on Saturday night and found myself giving advice to the friend of a girl I was up there with... Just bizarre...I also found myself picking up chicks in front of the girl I was there with just for some demos and to show what I could do...
It was pretty amusing...
I was in Tremblant on Saturday night and found myself giving advice to the friend of a girl I was up there with... Just bizarre...I also found myself picking up chicks in front of the girl I was there with just for some demos and to show what I could do...
It was pretty amusing...
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Another Bootcamp done, and gaming with girl's friends...
Ok last weekend was another great bootcamp in Montreal... We had some great guys and they learned alot...
Rather then repost the details of the bootcamp I'll post something I learned that was way more interesting... Tenmagnet and I were talking with the students about how to handle girl's friends... The discussion was around should you hang out with a girl's friends... In the past I had been totally cool with this, and these situations are really easy for me as I can quickly be the most outgoing person in the group, and be Alpha... However, I also realized from this discussion that doing this makes me "qualify" to her... The tighter game would be to show up, work the crowd and then leave. This makes you way more high value as scarcity principle applies...
Interestingly enough I had dinner last night with a good friend of mine named Ken. He's been dating a super hot model but has been spending all his time with her friends, also super hot... Through the conversation I realized that the fucked up thing is that he was generating his value through her friends... THIS IS THE WORST FRAME POSSIBLE.... Why??? Becuase it puts her in control and makes you less Alpha... I explained this concept to him, I think his relationship will now get better and he'll be able reassert control... He'll resume hanging out with his friends and not be dependent on her for value.
The great thing about the game is that there is always more to learn....
Rather then repost the details of the bootcamp I'll post something I learned that was way more interesting... Tenmagnet and I were talking with the students about how to handle girl's friends... The discussion was around should you hang out with a girl's friends... In the past I had been totally cool with this, and these situations are really easy for me as I can quickly be the most outgoing person in the group, and be Alpha... However, I also realized from this discussion that doing this makes me "qualify" to her... The tighter game would be to show up, work the crowd and then leave. This makes you way more high value as scarcity principle applies...
Interestingly enough I had dinner last night with a good friend of mine named Ken. He's been dating a super hot model but has been spending all his time with her friends, also super hot... Through the conversation I realized that the fucked up thing is that he was generating his value through her friends... THIS IS THE WORST FRAME POSSIBLE.... Why??? Becuase it puts her in control and makes you less Alpha... I explained this concept to him, I think his relationship will now get better and he'll be able reassert control... He'll resume hanging out with his friends and not be dependent on her for value.
The great thing about the game is that there is always more to learn....
Monday, June 11, 2007
F1 In Montreal
Hi all,
Ok F1 in Montreal needs to be seen to be believed... They close down both St. Laurent and Crescent street for the better good of GETTING FUCKING WASTED....
So we're at BSIDE on Friday night and then HB Trainer walks into the bar next to us, Lodge Tavern... I am standing outside and at the "I'm invincible" stage from generating mad attraction and tight inner game at th bar... Anyhow I bust in, the shots start flying, and she left the next day at 3pm...
She's offically been updated to the #1 spot in the rotation...
This whole thing has made me reflect on HOW IMPORTANT it is to constantly be friendly and social... I would never have gotten to where I am had it not be for TMM....
More to come...
Ok F1 in Montreal needs to be seen to be believed... They close down both St. Laurent and Crescent street for the better good of GETTING FUCKING WASTED....
So we're at BSIDE on Friday night and then HB Trainer walks into the bar next to us, Lodge Tavern... I am standing outside and at the "I'm invincible" stage from generating mad attraction and tight inner game at th bar... Anyhow I bust in, the shots start flying, and she left the next day at 3pm...
She's offically been updated to the #1 spot in the rotation...
This whole thing has made me reflect on HOW IMPORTANT it is to constantly be friendly and social... I would never have gotten to where I am had it not be for TMM....
More to come...
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